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Dream Deep wrote:Sorry you guys feel this way and I'll make the suggested changes, but I really didn't think it was that offensive.

Sorry you guys feel this way and I'll make the suggested changes, but I really didn't think it was that offensive.

Life is hard to understand as it is. But it’s even harder to understand how people
think when they’re right at that pivotal age between kid and adult. In other
words, teenagers make no sense. But here’s a theory that I’ve come up with
about the way teenagers think and act - tell me if I’m hard to understand.

There are three kinds of teenagers: real kids, pretend kids, and unreal kids.
The real kids are people like Brittany Spears, Hilary Duff, a girl I knew
named Sonya... Here, let me give you a really good example of real kids (or at
least kids who think they’re real). I was watching Entertainment Tonight on TV,
and they were showing a handful of movie clips from some big fashion/awards
show that had been going on. At one point, the reporter who was talking over
the movie clips and pictures said, “And then we caught up with (----), who
wasn’t afraid to act her age...”. (----) turned out to be the thirteen year old
daughter of a celebrity - who was wearing a Hello Kitty dress, complete with a
plastic purse and Hello Kitty earrings. Apparently this was ‘acting her age’. When
the reporter commented on her outfit, she giggled, fingered her earring and said,
“Yeah, just about everyone’s been, like, coming up to me and going, ‘Hello,
Kitty.” This is a good example of real kids. They think that they’re real, the best,
the finest, and they expect to be emulated.

The pretend kids fill in the gap and do just that. The pretend kids are the
kids who think they’re individuals and yet are so completely like every other
individual kid that its laughable. These are the children who play rap on the
highest volume their stereo will allow at 5 AM, not because they actually care
for rap, but because all of the other kids do it. These are the kids who moderate
their speech so that they sound exactly like someone else, the kids who dye their
hair at twelve so that they can look just like they’re out of a magazine, the kids
who buy Teen People at the grocery store so that they can see what styles are in.
The pretend kids are like the real kids in a way, because their entire self-image
depends on how other people look at them - and in turn emulate them.

And last come the unreal kids. Unreal kids include nerds, nonconformists,
people not fans of Brittany Spears, kids who care about school (the environment,
world cultures, war, etc.) and teenagers who just plain don’t fit in. Unreal kids
are unreal because they don’t fit the stigma of their generation. You might think
that because there are a relatively large amount of unreal kids out there that the
stigma would change, but then again, they’re unreal, so no-one notices them.

Real girls associate with pretend girls only when they feel like being the
center of attention. Real girls flirt with real boys and if they’re famous enough
they make news with it. If they aren’t famous, there is an invisible line between
ordinary real girls and real boys, along with pretend girls and pretend boys. The
line is unnegotiable, at least until one of them gets bold enough to cross it.

Either way, anyone is allowed to cross the line to be nasty to the unreal
kids. And sometimes an unreal kid gets fed up with it, and evolves to become a
pretend kid. Sometimes, if they keep at it long enough, one of the pretend kids
will become a real kid, not because anything changed, but because they’ve
become so adept at being pretend that some other misinformed kid will mistake
them for real. And then it starts all over again - someone sees this kid emulating
this brand new real girl, and before you know it, everyone has her hairstyle.

It makes a very good journal entry - it seems to honestly reflect things you've thought about, but most of all reflect feeling. Every word tells of a world you see and feel. But though it has the form of an expository essay in the superficial it's not organised or related to reason. There's no logical progression from thesis to conclusion (though it could be the outline, or wonders leading up to organisation). From labels (i.e. unreal, etc.) you jump to conclusion.

This is a good example of real kids. They think that they’re real, the best,
the finest, and they expect to be emulated.

The pretend kids fill in the gap and do just that. The pretend kids are the
kids who think they’re individuals and yet are so completely like every other
individual kid that its laughable.

Hey Dream Deep,

Since you commented on my play, I have decided to return the favor and read over your paper and put my ideas out there.

First off, I believe that classiflying something such as teenagers is an almost impossible task but I will leave this to you to manage.

To be a teenager is a time when you have to find yourself, to find out what you like and dislike and overall, to expierence everything you can before you reach the age of adult.

So, since I am not a fan of Brittany Spears, I am a unreal kid? Do you like Brittany Spears? Because it seems that way. You say that people that dont fit in with thier generation are unreal because they dont like people such as Brittany Spears and they enjoy subjects such war and world cultures. Well..at this moment..singers such as Eminem are much more popular then Brittany Spears. There is also...a War going on...so it comes up alot with what kids tend to talk about. Teenagers need someone to confide in in order for them to feel accepted and safe.

Remember that you have just called about 97% of American Teenagers Unreal or Pretend kids. The rap teenagers may actually like rap. The Kids who enjoy talking about something more interesting then Pop-culture (to them) may not be unreal. So then you have a problem if you have a 17 year old that acts his age, listens to rap music and enjoys discussing war and politics.

All in all, this is just my view on it. I really enjoyed reading your paper, it kinda gave me a new view on things. I hope you dont think I am lashing out at you or something in that nature.

Thanks for putting it on there. Hope you keep reading my plays and I will keep reading your papers.

Neost.

I really don't think I understand what your intentions were with this or what the whole point of it was. What do these labels mean and why are you using them? They make no sense to me. The word real, when it comes to identity, talks about being true to yourself, what you really are, and not pretending to be something else. It also seems like you're putting down average people, and people who just want to be themselves. I really felt quite insulted by the term "unreal kid." If I'm not real, what am I?

Since there are five paragraphs, I think it is safe to assume that this was meant to be your basic beginngers five-paragraph essay. The problem with this one is that it does not have a solid thesis, which is why it doesn't seem to have a point. What are you trying to say? What I got from it is that you're praising celebrities and people who are act like celebrities, and are critisizing everyone else. This essay gave me the impression that you do not know truly understand the issues that this essay touches on. It is very complex, and there are many factors not considered.

And to comment on the title, your main topic is not pop culture, and therefore is not an appropriate title. Your main topic would be about the psychology of teenagers.

Overall I agree with the whole topic, and I did think it made sense. However, I don't understand why you used the word's 'real' and 'unreal'. What makes what you describe as a 'real' person any more real than an 'unreal' person?

Also, according to your piece, I'm unreal. I wouldn't consider myself that, though. I think I'm a real person in the sense that I'm not trying to be someone I'm not. I would say the group you described as the 'pretend' kids could be called the unreal kids. So, I guess what I'm trying to say is that you should change your labels so they fit more appropriately.